Post: #235943 by hegemon42 on Fri May 11, 2012 1:28 am 
Mike,
  You are correct, so let me hang some  more dirty laundry.  I will provide you with a summary of what  happened. Some may question the facts, but there are witnesses to what  occurred that have little if anything to do with Weibel Chess. During  the third round in the High School section of the CalChess State Grade  Level Championship, Dr. Azhar who was the organizer, not the chief TD,  that was John McCumiskey NTD, went to a Tournament Director of the High  School section informing him that his son would be late due to oral  surgery.  The Director, whose own son was a top competitor in section,  told one of my players, scheduled to play Salman's son, not to start his  clock.  Something that should never have occurred.  This is a decision  that must be made by the Chief TD and not by an organizer and not when  it pertains to the organizer's own son.  Yes, the game started late and  was played. My player lost.  I asked him why he didn't just start his  clock.  He said he felt like he had no choice.  I spoke to John and said  I felt that the game should not have been played. I  learned that Dr.  Azhar's son had been at a gathering at his cultural club which delayed  him. John ruled that a forfeit win would be awarded to my player and  that Salman's son would receive a forfeit lose.  The next day, and I am  still not sure why, John changed his ruling and gave Salman's son a 1/2  point bye. I spoke to Michael, my player and filed a protest on his  behalf as the rules of the tournament said that no 1/2 point bye could  be awarded after the event began.  I lost and the committee gave both  players forfeit wins in the event and ordered the game rated as an extra  game. That is the background and the protest I lost. 
  
  Salman  came to me after Sunday's first round began and said something to the  effect that he was innocent of any wrong doing. I told him I did not  believe that was true.  We both lost our tempers, but that is when the  ugliness started.  He proceeded on calling my player a liar.  Knowing  the young man as one of the most sincere and nicest kids I have, I told  him he was out of line.  If it had been left at that all would have been  fine.  From my perspective he then went off the deep end.  As Michael  and his Mom were heading for the second Sunday round in a crowded  hallway, Salman called Michael a liar. Michael's Dad confronted Salman  in a gathering of coaches and Salman continued to call Michael a liar.  The worst was yet to come.  It was one of those days.
  
  Before the  last round, a parent of another player started screaming at one of my  fourth grade players--the top seed in the section.  I was not there, but  what was reported to me was that a couple of other parents tried to  stop the guy from screaming.  One went to Salman and asked him to please  stop this parent.  Salman refused to act and told this parent, who is  himself a TD and not from Weibel, that it was just a Weibel kid and he  would not intervene.  The parent said he was calling 911 if he didn't do  something. Salman finally called the hotel security.  By that time,  Anthony's Dad (the boy who was verbally attacked by the parent) had  arrived and was going at it with the parent who had attack his son.   Salman had security remove both parents from the site.  Meanwhile, I had  arrived and learned what happened. A few Weibel parents tried to calm  Anthony down.  He had been crying since he was being screamed at.  The  woman who Anthony's Dad asked to take care of him finally convinced him  to go in to play his last game.  Anthony's Dad was waiting outside the  hotel.  Salman heard about it and went down there and demanded he get  off the sidewalk which was hotel property. Anthony's Dad reports that he  said he would wait across the street on public land.  Apparently, this  did not satisfy Salman who went in to the playing hall without  discussing what he was going to do with the Chief TD and removed Anthony  from his game which had been underway for awhile.  One of the Weibel  parents followed them fearing for Anthony's safety.  She says that  Salman left the child in a dark hallway unattended to go get his father.   Can it get worse?--it did.  One of my parents picked up a discussion  that Salman's son had on face book with his friends.  Salman  participated in this exchange. The boys, including Salman's son, made  various racist stereotype remarks.  Salman did not interject and condemn  these comments.  A transcript of this conversation was forwarded to the  USCF.
  
  A number of parents were ready to collect money to  institute a lawsuit. I thought this was a bad idea and said they should  follow earlier advice presented to Michael's Dad by Elizabeth  Shaughnessy, former USCF Board member, that they file a report with the  US Chess Federation.  They did.  Since some of the parents were refusing  to attend the CalChess Championships in the Spring, I held a meeting  with all the team parents--we have 81 players.  Most were there and the  vote not to attend any tournaments Salman held was overwhelming.   Parents expressed their fear that if Salman lost his temper again as he  had done there and done with another Team's children and parents at an  earlier event that it would be extremely harmful to their kids.  They  did not want their children called names and removed from an event due  to misdirected anger.   Some feared that the next step might not be just  leaving a child in a darkened hallway alone but it might escalate from  verbal violence to physical violence.  The CalChess President was  invited to this meeting, but he could not attend and did not send a  representative.  The meeting was taped & that tape is online.
  
  Salman  and I communicated via e-mail for a short while.  I tried to identify  to him that this issue was not between myself and him, but between him  and the parents.  I wrote to Salman that he needed to call the parents  and apologize to them.  He cut off communication at that point.  I am  afraid that many people like Chris have tried to make this an issue  between Salman and myself.  It may have started that way, but it became a  public attack on children and their parents.  Some have said that I am  strong enough to resolve this.  Well, I am not.  Salman, as I told him,  must call the parents and talk with them. He has their numbers. 
  
  Well that's it folks and for awhile, as tomorrow the games begin.
  From Nashville,
  Alan